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January 7, 2011

今天看到谢文的“好主意的社会起源”,的确是篇好文章。很多时候,由于某种原因,我们被自己和自己的圈子限制着,高高兴兴的做自己挖的这口井里面的青蛙。不仅是公司,这种事情也发生在生活的每个地方:我们相信自己住的地方是好的,自己吃的东西是好的,自己做事的方式是对的。偶尔我们会担心一下,有点不确定自己是不是做的对,于是我们去看朋友,发现他们也安心的过着和我们差不多的生活,于是我们放心了,给自己一个信心,继续过下去。如果有人说我们做的不对,另外一个想法是好的,我们多半会觉得不爽。

这种事情在企业里面最甚。特别是对领导说的,下属是肯定不会说不的,除非他想走人了;同僚也是不会说不的,除非她在和你竞争你们老板的位子。为什么呢?我看是因为有利益牵连,所以不愿告诉你真的想法。比如吧,几年前某个国际知名公司要取个中文名字,然后名字出来以后大家哗然,说这个名字太那个了。我相信取名字的人是下了一番功夫去想这个名字的,想出来以后肯定也在公司里面问过大家,但是为什么没有人告诉他,这个名字可以被恶搞如此多次呢?我相信,那个公司里面那么多聪明人,听到这个名字的时候,肯定有人在肚子里面恶搞了一千遍了,但是作为下属或者同僚,没有人愿意得罪人。是啊,当你面恶搞你挖空心思想出来的名字,让你记恨我?那还不如让你把名字推出去呢,反正最后恶搞的不是我,倒霉的也不是我。

古人说了几千年的忠言逆耳,但是能把说忠言的人当朋友的,还是没有几个。

其实这个事情,在美国的公司里面也很多。有人可能不相信,美国不是言论自由么?这个,嘿嘿,你说的实在是太对了,美国是世界上最言论自由的国家,没有别的国家比美国更言论自由了,嘿嘿嘿

扯远了,一扯政治就容易跑题,还容易招来评论员。说说怎么从井里跳出来吧。要我说,给出一二三条建议,然后说这些就是听到另外一面意见的良药,是最容易的。对啊,反正你们爱听一揽子解决方案,我就说几个给你们听呗,你们又没有几个人真的去实践,我说了良药,你们听来觉得有理,咱们继续在这个新挖的井里蹲着。

好吧我说实话,我不认为什么制度化的东西能让人一直听到真心的反对意见。基本上制度一旦定下来宣布了,就过时了,你周围的聪明人就开始绕开制度让你听你最喜欢听的了。你如果想听真心话,最重要的还是要你自己去做到愿意听。自己不去发现那些过时或者不正确的地方,完全指望下属和周围的人提醒,就本末倒置了。

5 Comments »

  1. 所谓:山不来就我,我便去就山……

    Comment by 野草博客 — January 7, 2011 @ 7:44 pm

  2. 说的是谷歌的名字么。。。。。

    Comment by petcon — January 9, 2011 @ 10:48 pm

  3. I agree with you.

    Comment by replica rolex — December 2, 2012 @ 7:55 pm

  4. thanks for sharing it.

    Comment by replica rolex — December 3, 2012 @ 7:48 pm

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